Thursday, December 11, 2014

A Surprise Day Treat for Your Teens 

by Rom Brafman PhD., Site Director at La Entrada Middle School 
If you're the romantic type you've probably planned a surprise date night or day-long event for your loved one. Maybe you took them to a concert or even whisked them on a romantic getaway. We take pride in putting thought into planning a fun event for our partners--which is great--but why not apply the same type of creative energy into putting together a surprise day-long event with your teen? I know, I know, most teens don't exactly jump up and down at the thought of spending a day with a parent. But if you plan it the right away and present it the right way it'll me a memorable experience for both of you and show your teen just how much you adore them. 
What would be a fun experience that both of you can share? Maybe it's a lunch at a favorite restaurant and a trip to a museum where you can reflect on art? Or maybe it's going shopping together and then going to the beach. To be honest, these suggestions are a little generic because they are not tailor-made to your teen. But you know your child well enough to make it magical. Put some thought to it. Make sure that it's a surprise. Tell them that you're planning a surprise day just for them. Build it up. Give them some clues if you'd like, but they should be difficult ones. If they ask you why you're doing it, 
tell them that it's because they're so great and you love them. If they try to opt out, tell them that it's really important for you to spend quality time with them. They may not show you how thankful or appreciative they are, but they'll take it in, and when they grow older they'll remember it. 
Once you go on a couple of these adventures, turn the tables and ask them to plan something to surprise you. They may not want to, which is fine, but give them the option. You'll be teaching them to be creative, to be thoughtful, and to celebrate life. It's those moments that mean the most. 

Adolescent Counseling Services is a community non-profit, which provides vital counseling services on nine secondary campuses at no charge to students and their families. To learn more about our services please visit the ACS website at or call Pam Garfield, Site Director at Gunn (650) 849-7919. ACS relies on the generosity of com-munity members to continue offering individual, family, and group counseling to over 1,500 individuals annually. ACS provides critical interventions and mental health services, building a better future for tomorrow. If you are interested in helping to support our efforts, do not hesitate to call to make a donation. It goes a long way in helping teenagers find their way!

Looking for something to make an upcoming event special?  PACO's most experienced members are available to perform at weddings, parties, award shows, and wherever else you might need beautiful music.  Please click here to contact our ensemble department.
December 14, 3:00PM
Cubberley Theatre

January 30, 7:30PM
Cubberley Theatre
February 6, 7:30PM
Cubberley Theatre

For a complete list of performances, please visit our website.
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Holiday Extravaganza
Palo Alto Chamber Orchestra
Benjamin Simon, conductor
Yuri Liberzon, Guitar

Sunday, December 14th - 3:00PM
Cubberley Theatre - Free

PACO's second annual holiday extravaganza features seasonal favorites which include excerpts from Tchaikovsky's beloved Nutcracker Ballet (with the fabulous young dancers of Mountain View's Pacific Ballet Academy), and Handel's Messiah(with sensational local soprano Shawnette Sulker), plus Beatles tunes with guitaristYuri Liberzon and a cameo appearance by PACO's youngest ensemble, theSuperStrings, directed by Kris Yenney.

The concert will also feature PACO members performing the first movement of Maurice Ravel's String Quartet in F, one of the masterworks of the 20th century.
Thanks for your continued support of PACO, and we hope to see you at one of the performances.

Hans Hoffer, Manager
Palo Alto Chamber Orchestra

Thursday, December 4, 2014

SELPA1 CAC Parent Ed Night:All About Middle School

How to prepare for and successfully complete middle school.  We will talk about skills that are fostered and developed in middle school:  independence, self advocacy, academic knowledge, interpersonal skills, and executive functioning.  Our speaker will be Nicole Gonzales, LASD program  specialist, formerly the middle school social cog program teacher.

Wednesday, Jan 21, 2015
Hospitality 6:45pm
Meeting – 7 to 9 pm
Covington School Multi
205 Covington Road, Los Altos  94024

This parent education event is sponsored by the SELPA 1 CAC ( an all-volunteer group of parents of children with special needs. Our service area includes all public school districts in Los Altos, Mountain View, and Palo Alto. All of our events are free and open to anyone who feels they might benefit. No registration is necessary.